Will My Assistant Remember My Allergy? What Personal LLM Assistants Forget When Conversation Memory Is Compressed
TL;DR
Personal LLM assistants (health companions, elder-care agents, accessibility aides) are judged by what they remember about a person: a medication or an allergy mentioned in passing and needed days later, so an eviction policy must decide what the cache forgets.
Abstract
Personal LLM assistants (health companions, elder-care agents, accessibility aides) are judged by what they remember about a person: a medication or an allergy mentioned in passing and needed days later. Privacy pushes them on-device, where a month of conversation can outgrow the model's own weights, so an eviction policy must decide what the cache forgets. Benchmarks report that eviction keeps such facts at a 20% budget, but they compress a prompt that already contains the user's future question, foresight no cache-reusing assistant has. Hide the question until after compression and the advantage vanishes: on PA-Bench, 100 assistant conversations we construct, an allergy mentioned in passing survives to the question that needs it 0–1% of the time, against 97% with full memory. The cause is the budget, not the scorer: none of the training-free policies we evaluate ranks the fact high enough, and the budget that would keep it is too large to bother compressing. A compressed cache is an inference-reuse mechanism, not a persistence layer: safety-critical facts need an auditable episodic store alongside it, and an interface that asks rather than invents.